Dementia & Memory Support in Nairobi & Kiambu

Watching a parent become forgetful or confused is painful, and it can be exhausting for the family. People living with dementia usually do best at home, in familiar surroundings, with calm routines and a familiar face.

How I support someone with memory loss

• Routine: meals, washing, walks and rest at the same times each day, which reduces anxiety
• Gentle communication: short sentences, one step at a time, never arguing or rushing
• Safety: watching for wandering, falls, unsafe cooking and missed meals
• Engagement: music, prayer, old photos, simple tasks they enjoy — things that bring comfort
• Meals and fluids: many people with dementia forget to eat or drink, so I encourage and record it

Evenings and "sundowning"

Confusion and restlessness often get worse in the late afternoon and evening. Calm lighting, a predictable evening routine, and a reassuring presence can help a great deal — this is where evening or overnight care is especially valuable.

Working with the doctor

Memory loss can have treatable causes, so a doctor's assessment is important. I follow the care plan and medicines the doctor prescribes, report changes in behaviour, sleep or appetite, and work alongside any nurse involved.

Being honest about fit

For advanced dementia with complex medical or behavioural needs, I'll tell you honestly whether I'm the right fit, and may suggest combining my support with specialist or nursing care.